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With gender issues I'm Egalitarian "believe in the principle that people are equal and deserve equal rights/opportunities". Androgyny, the combination of male and female characteristics.


Is that not what women ask, seek and expect these days?


To deny the female gender their individuality, empowerment, freedom of choice, expression etc in this modern era is mysoginist, sexist, discriminatory, even domestic violence if a partner expresses his preferred clothing preference for his partner. Not so for men though. 


'what's good for the goose is good for the gander' 

Be yourself because an original is worth more than a copy.


We are all just human beings, with the same feelings, emotions, preferences, and all capable of projecting likes and dislikes. We are all subject to human society brain washing, labelling, stereotyping and placing of expectations on others as individuals and as groups. Many are capable of expecting for themselves, denying others and labelling groups upon the actions of a few.


Society on the whole believes not wearing anything that it insists as being 'macho, powerful, dominant' style

SkirtedMan and Father Christmas

clothing, which it percieves are styled like or is menswear, is making that individual weak, effeminate etc. I say the person defines the person not what he or she wears.

Why under gender equality and gender neutral within clothing it needs to be styled and fashioned

on traditional mens attire to be considered as being gender equal, gender neutral? Why not traditional womens style of clothing, or even better a mix and or combination of both traditional mens and womens? After all women in this modern era, certainly since the 1980's now do have a mix of both traditional male and female clothing and without question!


Diversity is the understanding that individuals are unique and recognise their individual differences. This is: race, ethnicity, gender, appearance, sexual orientation, social and economic status, age, physical abilities, religious beliefs, political beliefs, etc. It is undertaken by many within their own individual lives and for varying reasons. Taken for granted by themselves for themselves, yet some question the diversity of others. This site concentrates on my clothing preference as a man, just like many other men around the world, mostly hiding behind closed doors. I do not hide though!


Diversity applies to all and there for all. Even Father Christmas embraces diversity! 



This site is predominately about Men in Skirts but does have a small section on life and society. I also have a small section on mens rights and issues. I have supported International Mens Day via Twitter on and around 19th November since 2014 and support and acknowledge men have issues, just like women do, that are not only over looked by the opposite gender but by society as a whole. I am Egalitarian therefore support equality and respect for both genders. I am not an active campaigner but do speak up on such issues within my private life when and where required. It is an area of my site I hope to develop more.


Back to men in skirts. I am a hetrosexual male who is not gender confused, transgender or any other negative connotation you want to quote. If I am, it applies equally to 99% of the female population who have changed their stereotype expectations and adopt a masculine appearance.

A few interesting quotes:

"There's no sin like being a woman. When a man dresses as a woman, the audience laughs. When a woman dresses like a man, no body laughs. They just thought she looked wonderful."

Quentin Crisp 1908 - 1999

As Archbishop Desmund Tutu said "I am because you are" applying the philosophy of Ubuntu.

"...taboos can change swiftly..." and " societies of everywhere, we mock the taboos of others yet fail to see the absurdity of our own..."

18th July, 2014  Anne Atkins Thought for the Day - BBC Radio 4.

" don't need human rights until you need them. Everybody loves their own human rights; it's just other people's that are problematic."

25th October 2014 Shami Chakrabarti part of an interview with The Independent Magazine.

"The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about"

Wayne Dyer

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind"

Bernard M Baruch: 1870 - 1965

 "It is better to be hated for what you are than be loved for what you are not"

Andre Gide: 1869 - 1951

"Evolution has yet to transend that simple barrier. We can care deeply, selflessly about those we know but that empathy rarely extends beyond our line of sight" 

From the film Interstella 2015

"The worst kind of loneliness in the world is the isolation that comes from being misunderstood. It can make people lose their grasp on reality." 

From the book Inferno by Dan Brown. The closing sentences of chapter 101.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."

"Change your mind as often as possible. Just because you thought something yesterday doesn't mean you have to think it today. Don't ever become a prisoner of your own opinion."

Harvey Fierstein 1954 -    American Actor



I am a firm believer that individuality, freedom of choice and expression is an absolute must in this modern era. Labels, sterotyping of individuals should not apply. Provided no physical harm is done to others. However, in this modern era, this freedom and breaking of society shackles only applies to women, where men are still expected to conform, behave and appear as society has expected for the last 200 years.

"The challenge for us is to give each other space to grow and to change. To be different and to see things differently. But does that demand too much of us? Does it require a change of heart and perspective? Is that too much to ask? Christianity teaches it can never be too much, but all to often we fail in that challenge because we demand that others change first. We see the fault in the other but not ourselves. We don't always appreciate the difference in our role of democracy and culture or see it as building a society not diminishing it. History has seen to many attempts to eradicate those who dare to be different but its intolerance of people and ideas that threaten our democracy not difference. Difference brings it to life."

This quote is part of Thought for The Day, BBC Radio 4, 16th June 2017,  by Francis Campbell, Vice Chancellor of St Mary's University, London.


On the 2nd June 2017 I came across an article in a popular newspaper which ended with the following quote from Madonna in 2016:

“The fact that people actually believe a woman is not allowed to express her sexuality and be adventurous past a certain age is proof that we still live in an ageist and sexist society. We cannot affect change unless we are willing to take risks by being fearless and by taking the road less travelled by. That’s how we change history.

“If you have a problem with the way I dress it is simply a reflection of your prejudice. I'm not afraid to pave the way for all the girls behind me.”

This was said by Madonna when she appeared in public in a very near 100% see through dress and had negative comments and internet Trolls. I state through out this site, in this modern and open era, individuality, freedom of choice and expression applies to all. This quote was in an article because Amanda Holden had apperared on the ITV Britains Got Talent show in a dress that on the front was as if she was only wearing an unbuttoned cardigan and again negativity was shown. The article was written by a female reporter objecting to the critisism and concluded with the Madonna quote.

Feminisim broke the expected labels and sterotypes of women so that they can be seen as individuals. Feminisim speaks of equality but for equality to exist you need it to apply to all - Egalitarian. Take out any reference in this quote about women, woman, girls etc and place men, man and boys. The basic ethos of what this quote is aspiring to applies equally. On the same day of this article I had a woman say to me, who asked why I wore skirts, that womens change but not for men is simply the way society has evolved. She also said she would strongly object to anyone who dictated what she had to wear. This I thought was interesting, she was questioning me!

This site is primarily promoting men in skirts and other items from the female wardrobe, but under my thoughts and discussions of Egalitarian, true equality for all. I do have a section on mens issues, rights and discrimination based on third party sites. Another sentiment of mine even though many do not affect me directly. All accessed from menus, left hand side. 


Women in this modern era, and quite rightly so, demand and expect individuality, freedom of choice, freedom of expression, not to be bound by stereotypical expectations and labels. 014FrontPageWith regards men, many within society still confine men to expected stereotypical expectaions, labels, roles and challenged if questioned or apply similar modern individuality for themselves. 

The two women on this photo are very typical. Take their heads off and you would think they were two men, the same style and expectations that men are expected to appear these days in casual mode. When not casual then it is the grey suit or at events, the "penguin suit". These two women passed me several times and each time had to have a giggle. As I say later, I get far more compliments and people talking to me as a human being than I do negative, but as in all aspects of society there are always those who claim to be perfect yet mock others. I have had on two occasions parents of disabled children laugh at me, and on another occasion a disabled person laugh at me. I have had on a few occasions very obvious Gay and Lesbians laugh at me, yet disabled, Gay/Lesbians make the most noise when not accepted themselves. As I say it is only a very, very small minority who openly make negative representations and none to date ever challenge me negatively directly. Of the small minority it is always 99% women embracing their freedom of choice and expression. I have heard many a man or woman laugh, poke fun or question another person just because that person prefers to be an individual or be different, especially being different to their prefence. Why should I expect anything different for myself or other men in skirts?

There is a drive in society these days that to look macho, behave macho is the way to succeed and a requirement, a rite of passage. Well I and quite a few men are not. Your personality and how you behave in life defines you, not your appearance, clothing, job, car, house etc. This article dated 24th February 2017 by Lisa Honan is titled Seven Things That Change When Women Wear "Mens" Clothes. She claims they are more comfy and you have far more choice. These two points I disagree with, but when she says you are taken more seriously in mens clothes I can relate to, but I do not get shop Assistants asking me questions as to why I am buying "womens" clothes. She claims you get more pocket storage space and that the world is not ready for women in mens clothes. The latter one I find very interesting as 99% of all women these days do dress in items of clothing that men are still expected to be confined too. Her last point was in mens clothing she gets lots of wonderful comments from strangers and friends. Actually so do I in my "womens" clothes choice as too my wife who is 99% of the time in skirts and dresses.

Lucy Rycroft-Smith has an article "I wore men's clothes for a month - and it changed my life" dated 7th January 2017 on the site theFword Contemporary UK Feminism. She also wrote another article on 22nd February 2017 "Switching to men's clothing taught me that the world doesn't want women to get too comfortable". Comments on the 7th January 2017 article make interesting reading.

Then we have the opposite problem. A girl who openly wants to be a "Tom Boy" in appearance and behaviour is asked by her education establishments if she is transgender! Up until I read this article (The New York Times 18th April 2017) my experience with society is that society questioned men and boys if they wanted to be an individual, true to themselves, not females but this is a girl being challenged. Society is obsessed pushing others individual perceptions of what others should be, or are, based upon appearance. Please refer to the quotations near the top of this page.

I note similar comments from some women time to time on social media complaining bitterly about others should not dictate to them what they can and cannot wear. This one on Twitter, 10th December 2017 I replied too. A may reply to others and not simply ignore as I have done. 

This link is to an article about men in skirts, posted 31st January 2013 on the It is on an interview with a fashion student, man in a skirt who wears society labelled womens clothes as a man and questions why soicety gets obsessed when a man takes a stand on society expectations. Sensa Nostra is a human experience archive, building a diverse collection of personal stories, thoughts and outlooks from around the globe. Offering new perspectives on art, religion, sex, drugs, economics, politics, and so much more.

My stance as a man is how I choose to appear with regards clothing. My right, my choice. There are many men out their like this but sadly hide behind closed doors, dare not even let their thoughts and feelings out for fear of society expectations. Many men on a men in skirts forum and other internet outlets openly say they refrain from it for this fear and many even say their wives and partners forbid it yet still claim their freedom of choice. Society is full of hypocracy and bigotry, but I stand up to this and within my own personal life, free myself. I am a better and contented person since than ever before. I note society comments via many media forms on men in skirts but I also note what I expereince within my own life with those I associate with and those who will interact with me.

Clothing should not be gender based, especially in this modern and supposedly open minded and equal society. I accept women who wear trousers and in my view those that look very manly, they have this right. I accept, and always have that neither gender is above each other. We both have respective roles to play and do complement each other. What I do not accept is those who do and then say you cannot.

Our sex is defined biologically by nature. We are either male or female designed for the relevant reasons. However, gender, is a society term for the expected behaviour of male or female and changes with the passage of time. Just look back through history. However, in the modern day era this gender is becoming very blurred and confusing with some claiming rights, many deny others rights yet allow for many. Dress code is one example. Women can wear socks but men but men frowned upon if wear tights. Women can wear trousers but frowned upon if men wear skirts. Women demand and expect to do male activities, yet it is frowned upon if a man does or chooses to participate in a life style deemed women only to name but some. 

Since the early 1980's I have seen women’s rights and demands in the clothing area never challenged but men who desire to exercise similar rights are. Society these days boxes men into a tight code of expectations, on traditional clothes, macho, rugged and must not show emotion but then are criticised for showing and also not showing understanding and compassion.


Our Society has grown into a rigid and complex set of rules to a point that what we wear has to define who we are, what we are and most important of all what others think of us. However women have been allowed to break this expectation yet at the same time society has this apparent ruling that forbids men. In the strict sense of arguments put forward as to why men cannot wear skirts and clothing they feel comfortable in simply reinforces the view point that quite honestly 90%+ women are cross dressers themselves.

I have often seen comments made by females in forums on this issue (assuming they are females but that’s the trouble with forums) that men should stop bleating and moaning and just do it if that’s how they feel. I agree with this statement and with my wife by my side this I have done.

Many say a man can wear shorts in hot weather. I have never liked shorts neither jeans. Shorts leave legs open to the sun. Apart from rolling up shirt sleeves I have never been a sun lover. My other response here is that although the majority of women today wear trousers for most of the time I have noticed that many as soon as it gets warm default back to skirts! Why not shorts if they are the cool equivalent of trousers. I have over heard many women say they like skirts in warmer weather. 


I have come across the following comment in a forum which I fully agree with, "Macho and feminine is a human label to identify the two feelings. The feelings are set by nature and both are in us all. Females are not ashamed to show the softer side unlike some men who frown upon being labelled as such and act as much as possible to dispel any such comments".


You ask why a man cannot wear a skirt and the reply is that a skirt is traditionally women’s clothing. What should a man wear - trousers - but that is one of many male clothing that women have moved into. Men generally frown upon skirt wearing and go very defensive in a macho mood. I get the impression that society now considers the wearing of a skirt as a backward step, a sign of inferiority and second class citizen. How is it that quite a few men like wearing dressing gowns at home and not just to go between bathroom and bedroom. Why are men at pool sides, beaches and at times other places they are quite happy to be seen with a towel wrapped around their waist.

Throughout this web site I acknowledge womens rights to freedom of choice including clothing, go for it, but remember it does cut both ways. These women are still women and some will still have a feminine personality but it is no different to men like me and others like me. Yes there is a section of females that behave and think as if they are men and yes there are some men who wish to look and act like a woman, but 90% plus of women who want to show their true feelings and style do so with no negative comment.

Two women living together are just good friends. Two men living together and the initial response is Gay by many, most refine that opinion once the men have ‘proved’ it is not so. Men who want to have the same choice as women are frowned upon. Very one sided.


The rest of this site expands on the above in much more detail and at times is direct, blunt and to the point but that is down to society and its selfish and narrow minded attitudes.


10 things to give up -


Self Doubt

Fear of Failure


People Pleasing

Fear of Success

Negative Thinking

Negative Self Talks

Judgement of Others

Negative People in Your Circle

Source: @HealingMB  (Twitter)


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